Getting out there

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Thank god for the organic pouches

Poor sick baby is still that: sick. He is surprisingly spritely in the morning, galloping about with great enthusiasm. He wanes very quickly when it comes to food - should I be suspicious of this?! It seems that poor sick baby only has an appetite for pureed food in those handy pouches. I am of the home-cooked food camp, not feeding the little mite much from the jars. [I grew up in an eastern european and Irish family which involved a lot of guilt when it came to packaged foods. Surprising as the whole family went on to work in the supermarket world. Guilt and indulgence are also hallmarks of this background ;) ] I have always been swayed by the oh-so convenient packaging and organic goodness of these pouches. I admit it, I am sensitive to good advertising and any suggestion that my child won't be getting the best. I used these tempting little baby treats when out and about during the weaning stage, and always keep some handy just in case.

Well, this is 'just in case' now. He won't eat anything prepared by my hands. We're going through lovely home-cooked meals at an alarming rate. They're not going into him, but into the bin after a few half-hearted nibbles, some flinging and a lot of mashing about with the little hands. Not cool. So, I turn to the pouches. He falls on these with an appetite to rival Michael J Fox in TeenWolf [ok, everyone can now guess roughly how old I am] and devours them in seconds. We've even moved beyond the need for such useless implements as a bowl and spoon - he sucks them straight from the pack, kind of like a baby Dracula. Am I being played here? Is he sick? Or, does all this terrible eating herald more teeth?

Did I mention he's been walking since 9.5 months but still has only 10 teeth? His friends are all like baby sharks (as the breast-feeding mums can attest!) and he's gummy still. Hmmm. If anyone's telling you that there's a real schedule for baby development don't listen - they all go at their own rate!

Anyway, I digress. The pouches are flavour of the month and like a good and slightly desperate parent I'm off to the shop to stock up so the fussy sick/teething guy doesn't waste away.

Baby Tip 1: Poor Sick Baby

One would think that after 18 months I should have learned one of the cardinal rules of motherhood: don't try and cajole/forcefeed the baby when they're just not interested. This is because they KNOW when they're not interested. Unlike my good self who can always be tempted with a delicious treat, my little one knows when he's had his fill. And for good reason in my experience: he's feeling sick, or soon will be :( Some kids might just not like the food - but not my little guy.) When there's vehement shaking of the head and 'nononono' passing his lips I should know that it's unwise to press on. But I don't! Last night the poor little mite refused his favourite chilli, then nibbled listlessly at a cheese sandwich and turned his nose up to fruit (always a big winner.)

food refusual = sick baby. Memorise, remember, think silly mummy!

Cue massive sickness on the treasured bear and cosy sleeping bag. Then brief nap and even more on the spare bear and sleeping bag. Crying, dripping nose and general misery which is so heart-breaking. Back to bed and then furious washing ensues - thank god for a tumble dryer.

So, next time I will remember that when food is pushed away it's for a reason. He's not going to starve in the few hours of the hunger strike, and it will pass soon. Water is good if he'll have it.

Oh, and a top smallworldmum tip when dealing with a sick baby: Woolite or other wool detergent gets the smell out of carpet! It took me a long time and lots of consultations with my fellow mums to find a solution that worked!!

Tales of the Lost Hat

Somewhere out there must be a parallel universe stocked solely with the lost hats of toddlers. Tons of hats, floating in space, rubbing up against each other and then gently drifting off. If you were an observer of this universe, you would notice that all of these independent hats are missing one thing: heads for them to go on. The hats must go somewhere right, so this is surely a possible explanation?!

Like many mums I seem to be going through hats at a fierce rate. My little one casts them aside so casually from the pushchair, the red wagon and on the move. Sometimes this is accompanied by an 'oh oh' but usually the hat passes into another dimension with not a peep. Poor hats. Poor parents eternally buying hats. My great friend told me today she reckons she has had 8 hats in the last 6 months. What's the average? let me know so I know that I'm not alone!!!

How many hats have you lost this year? And where do you think they go when they leave your child's head?!

New Products!

OK, is it wrong to be obscenely excited by new products when they arrive?! I rush to open the boxes so I can catch that first glimpse of awesome new kids' things. I've ferreted them out, researched the brand etc., tested them where possible and then negotiated their order. Then I wait for them to appear at my door in all their glossy-newness. It's like Xmas - seriously! Once I have the box open I gaze at them adoringly, and then imagine the joy they're going to bring. Today's excitement was double as 2 shipments appeared - those boys at UPS are so efficient! The first was my order of Blablas. They sound like a boring conversation but these hand-knit dolls made in Peru are gorgeous. Bright and vibrant colours, funky designs and super cuddly. They come in 3 sizes (12", 22" and a whopping 3 feet) so I can see why an adult might be tempted by them ;) They are unique and I think they will make a fantastic new baby, baby shower or birthday gift. let's put it this way: my son is getting one as soon as he wakes up! Check out www.smallworldkids.biz to see more of them by searching under Blabla.

Today's 2nd treat was a bursting box from Starchild. Starchild make funky leather soft-soled shoes for babies and toddlers. I swore by these for my son as the leather is flexible and breathable which is key for growing feet. Even better, the elasticated ankle strap meant he couldn't get them off (not once and he wore this type of shoe for 8 months - that's no mean feat!!) so no more lost shoes. As any parent who knows the joys of retracing their steps for lost items, this is a very good thing! The Starchild shoes are really pretty (for girls) and funky and trendy (for boys.) I had such a hard time choosing the styles that I had to enlist some mum friends to help over a glass of wine. Needless to say, we went a bit overboard!

It's so fantastic to enjoy the job that you do, and opening the boxes and seeing our new stock makes my day great. It's a small thrill for me, and I'm so lucky to be doing a job now that brings this to me. Sure, there are tribulations with starting and managing your own business but this type of stuff makes that all worth while.

Now I'm off to select a Blabla...oohh goody!

Being Busy

I thought I was busy before I had a child. I had a full-time job - and I mean a really full-time job with late meetings and conference calls (oh, the conference calls!!!) travel in my personal time, and mountains of emails that always needed reading.

That was nothing!

Now that I have a gorgeous little creature to look after life is seriously busy. You don't sit down. [ok, I am sitting down now but I can hear the laundry, the dirty kitchen, the bills and oh, yes, my very important new venture calling me.] Every moment spent in pleasure is a stolen moment from another task. That's ok - it's what I signed up for - but sometimes it's just crazy. You need to know how to multi-task. I am known for this - I do lots of things at once and I think this is a skill I have honed to perfection and sometimes I'm too into it. All mums can do it. It's key if you want little one to be happy and well looked after/want a life/need to keep your head above water.

Busy is also good. One of the things I was really looking forward to in having a baby was meeting other mums and babies and establishing a network. I had no clue (really) what a baby entailed, and all those uncertain forays to pre-natal yoga, playgroups, story times etc. have really paid off as I have met a great bunch of women who have become really good, reliable and supportive friends. Every day is filled with events and playdates and we both love it. It can be lonely sometimes with just the little one so I have found that getting out with other mums is a lifesaver. It's great to compare notes, swap stories and have a chat. I've also found the advice fantastic: what's normal, what's not and when not to worry. [believe me, you spend a lot of time being worried.] Having friends with babies is grounding. And also good fun when you can leave the babies and go on a little night out ;)

I'd like to write more but I think I have to go now. The laundry is beeping so that has to be hung (why don't the english do dryers??!!!), the cat has just been sick on the floor and the kitchen looks like a tornado tore through it. Sigh. It's a busy life but I'm enjoying it!

The Inspiration

OK, so I'm a fairly new mum.  2 years ago I was a corporate high flyer: a big job with a big company, with global responsibilities.  I literally travelled the world, out of my home country 280 days a year.  It was fun - I enjoyed the challenge, meeting new people and exploring new things, and all the perks that went with it.  My husband and I tried for a while to have a baby and finally in March 2007 - success!  I cannot tell you how excited - and scared - I was.  On Xmas Eve 2007 my fantastic son came along.  [born at home, but that's a story for another time!]  I had a fantastic year off with him which was the most challenging (but most rewarding too) of my life.  During that time I watched him grow, stressed about his breathing, whether he was warm enough or too warm, whether he liked his food and ate enough, and whether the things we gave him were right.  Were they safe?  Stimulating? Fun?  Good-looking?  [let's face it, everyone wants people to coo over their baby and all the accessories and clothes are part of that!]  I had a great time researching the best options for us when it came to clothes, bedding, travel accessories, feeding products and food.  While I planned for him (before and after he arrived) I discovered that there are a lot of great things out there, but they're not necessarily available to everyone.  We live in the UK - it's big, glossy and urban in London so there's a lot of choice.  I like to think I went that little bit further and found things that really worked for him, and suited our lifestyle.  I found fantastic products - in the UK, across Europe and further afield.  I'm Canadian so stuff from North America was a given - we got tons of fabulous gifts, and found really different and lovely things when we spent our £s for $s.  

Everyone knows about the credit crunch and I'm not going to bang on about that, but instead of finding myself back at work in Jan. 2009, I found myself with a solid redundancy package.  What to do?!   So, I thought about it a lot and decided that the time with my son was precious.  As they go from babies to toddlers they change so much: first steps, first words, first experiences galore.  We worked through our options and I realised that if I could have more time with him (and was lucky enough to have a bit of a cushion to do so) then I would love to be there.  Obviously, we need to eat and buy the necessities (as well as a few treats on the way!) so I worked on what I could do to keep myself busy when not running after a VERY busy toddler and keep a toe in the world of work.  And voila! the idea for Small World Kids was born!

The whole premise behind my fledgling company is this: everyone wants the best for their child.  There are fantastic, useful, unique and stylish things out there.  Some are well-known, others are hidden gems.  These great products are everywhere, and other mums (moms for all you fellows North Americans!) are a great source of knowledge and inspiration.  My aim is to bring the best of these products - from anywhere I can find them - to other mums.  Our life can be tough enough, so why not use great things to make baby happier and life easier?!  I can't tell you how much fun I'm having ferreting out new things so check out the site, let me know what you love or just hang in as I blog about my life and my business - hopefully passing on some tips and tricks as I go!

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